\u201c\u00d6zenti K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc \u00c7ocukluktan Ba\u015fl\u0131yor\u201d<\/strong> Balc\u0131\u2019ya g\u00f6re gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlara y\u00f6nelik oyunlar\u0131n ilki oyuncaklarla ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00d6zellikle yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan ithal edilen makyajl\u0131 ve k\u0131sa elbiseli oyuncak bebeklerin, \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminden itibaren \u00f6zentiye sebep oldu\u011funu belirten Balc\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e bu \u00f6zentiyle makyaj ve a\u00e7\u0131k giyim tarz\u0131n\u0131n gen\u00e7ler aras\u0131nda yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Televizyon dizilerinde sergilenen l\u00fcks ya\u015fam tarzlar\u0131n\u0131n ve baz\u0131 sanat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n sahne k\u0131yafetlerinin de bu etkiyi art\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cNormalle\u015fen Yanl\u0131\u015flar Toplumu Tehdit Ediyor\u201d<\/strong>Toplumda bir zamanlar g\u00fcnah ve ay\u0131p say\u0131lan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n art\u0131k s\u0131radanla\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden Balc\u0131, \u201cAnneler ve babalar k\u0131zlar\u0131na s\u00f6z ge\u00e7iremez hale geldi. A\u00e7\u0131k sa\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k normalle\u015fti, hatta alk\u0131\u015flan\u0131r oldu. 13-14 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar bile makyajla ve yeti\u015fkin gibi giyinerek sokaklarda dola\u015f\u0131yor\u201d dedi.Bir annenin kendisine ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumu aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatan Balc\u0131, \u201cD\u00f6rt ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131ma k\u0131yafet almak i\u00e7in al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fe gittim. \u00c7ocuk reyonlar\u0131 adeta k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kad\u0131n reyonuna d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f. Crop ti\u015f\u00f6rtler, k\u0131sa \u015fortlar, dar etekler\u2026 \u00c7ocuk k\u0131yafeti bulmak neredeyse imk\u00e2ns\u0131z hale gelmi\u015f\u201d ifadelerini k\u00f6\u015fesine ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm Bilin\u00e7lenmekte\u201d<\/strong>Faruk Balc\u0131, toplumsal yozla\u015fmaya kar\u015f\u0131 tek \u00e7arenin bilin\u00e7lenmek oldu\u011funu belirtti. \u201cKimseyi zorla de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyiz. Ancak bilin\u00e7lendirerek, yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n fark\u0131na var\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabiliriz. Bu mesele yaln\u0131zca kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in de\u011fil, erkekler i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir\u201d dedi.Balc\u0131, bir sonraki yaz\u0131s\u0131nda erkeklerde g\u00f6r\u00fclen yanl\u0131\u015f tutumlara da de\u011finece\u011fini belirterek yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 tamamlad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015fte Yaz\u0131n\u0131n tamam\u0131;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n GEN\u00c7 KIZLARIMIZA KURULAN TUZAK hem T\u00fcrk D\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n hem de \u0130sl\u00e2m Aleminin \u00fcmit \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. T\u00fcrkl\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131, T\u00fcrk Milleti\u2019nin mazisine bak\u0131p gelecekte yine b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fc\u00e7 olmas\u0131ndan \u00e7ekinir. Bunun i\u00e7in tarih boyunca T\u00fcrk Milleti\u2019nin gelece\u011fine d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k eder, sinsi planlarla zay\u0131flatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. D\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck silah; T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bozmak ve gen\u00e7lerimizi milli ve manevi de\u011ferlerden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p d\u00fcnyevile\u015ftirmektir.\u00a0 T\u00fcrk milliyet\u00e7ili\u011fini \u0130slam iman ve ahlak\u0131yla yo\u011furan bir anlay\u0131\u015fa sahip oldu\u011funu dile getiren Faruk Balc\u0131,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7782,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7781","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.balatgazetesi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/faruk-balci-dan-carpici-uyari-genc-kizlarimiz-tuzak-altinda-1349-big-1024x515.jpg\")
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“Bir milleti sava\u015f olmaks\u0131z\u0131n y\u0131kmak isterseniz, \u00e7\u0131plakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve zinay\u0131 gen\u00e7 nesilde yay\u0131n.” Selahaddin Eyyubi.T\u00fcrkiye;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ben \u0130sl\u00e2m iman ve ahl\u00e2k\u0131na g\u00f6re ya\u015famay\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck saadet bilen, T\u00fcrk Milleti\u2019ni iki cihanda aziz ve mesut g\u00f6rmek isteyen ve b\u00f6ylece \u0130sl\u00e2m’\u0131 gaye edinen bir T\u00fcrk milliyet\u00e7ili\u011fi \u015fuuruna sahibim. Biz Nizam\u2019\u0131-alem \u00fclk\u00fcs\u00fcne ba\u011fl\u0131y\u0131z. Benim milliyet\u00e7ilik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131mda asla \u0131rk\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011fa, b\u00f6lgecili\u011fe ve dar kavmiyet \u015fuuruna yer yoktur. Bu yaz\u0131mda \u00f6zellikle gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zda h\u0131zla artan, yanl\u0131\u015f g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm hareketler konusunda sadece uyar\u0131larda bulunmak istiyorum.Gen\u00e7leri hedef alarak T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin gelece\u011fini karatmak isteyenler, \u00f6nce k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z \u00fczerinde oyunlar oynamaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Bana g\u00f6re ilk tuzaklardan birisi oyuncak bebeklerdi. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan ithal getirilen a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 g\u00fczel, makyajl\u0131 ve k\u0131sa elbiseli k\u0131z bebek oyuncaklar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminden itibaren bir \u00f6zenti ba\u015flat\u0131ld\u0131. Gayet masumane ve hi\u00e7 fark\u0131nda olmadan bir\u00e7ok aile k\u0131zlar\u0131na bu bebeklerden ald\u0131.\u00a0
O k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca bilin\u00e7 alt\u0131na art\u0131k yerle\u015fen oyuncak bebekler gibi olma, makyaj ve yar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131plakl\u0131\u011fa varan giyim tarzlar\u0131 ile aram\u0131zda dola\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Bu arada televizyon dizilerindeki \u015fatafatl\u0131 ya\u015fam tarz\u0131, baz\u0131 dizi oyuncular\u0131 ve sanat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131na zarar verecek ya\u015fam tarzlar\u0131 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zdaki \u00f6zentiyi biraz daha art\u0131rd\u0131. \u00d6zenilen baz\u0131 sanat\u00e7\u0131lar sahneye bu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k k\u0131yafetle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p gen\u00e7lere, bize kimse kar\u0131\u015famaz istedi\u011fimizi yapar\u0131z diyerek zehir sa\u00e7maya devam ediyorlar.Aileler ve \u00f6zellikle anneler; k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n olumsuz tav\u0131r, davran\u0131\u015f, giyim ve \u00f6zentili ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in s\u00f6z ge\u00e7iremediler. Bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n art\u0131k normal gibi g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k sa\u00e7\u0131k giyinme, hatta yar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131plak sokakta gezme ve b\u00f6yle gezenlere isteyerek bakma davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar g\u00fcnah oldu\u011funu maalesef hat\u0131ra getirmemeye ba\u015flad\u0131k. \u0130nternetiyle, gazetesiyle, televizyonuyla, soka\u011f\u0131yla bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcmana yak\u0131\u015fmayacak tarzdaki ya\u015fam tarz\u0131ndan ka\u00e7maz ve korunmak \u00e7ok zorla\u015ft\u0131.
A\u00e7\u0131k sa\u00e7\u0131k gezmenin normal g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 toplumumuzda; bir kar\u0131\u015f alt giysiyle, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 dar g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs k\u0131sm\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k elbiseler, s\u0131rt\u0131 beline kadar \u00e7\u0131plak kad\u0131nlar ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z h\u0131zla artmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.\u00a0Sokaklar kad\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcml\u00fc k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7ilmiyor. 13-14 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z bile k\u0131yafet, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 makyaj ve ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131 ile kendilerini b\u00fcy\u00fck bir insan gibi g\u00f6stermeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Bu \u015fekilde ya\u015famaya ba\u015flayan ki\u015filer M\u00fcsl\u00fcman iseler, ya\u015fam tarzlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0130slamiyet\u2019e uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorlar m\u0131?
\u00a0Bu toplum ger\u00e7e\u011fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00fcnah i\u015flemek istemeyen erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar ne yapacaklar? Nas\u0131l kendilerini koruyacaklar.
Bir \u00e7ocuk annesi ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn feryat ediyor. \u201cBug\u00fcn d\u00f6rt ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131m i\u00e7in kre\u015f al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fe gittim ve neredeyse tek bir par\u00e7a bile bulamad\u0131m.\u00a0
Crop ti\u015f\u00f6rtler(G\u00f6be\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131kta b\u0131rakan k\u0131yafetler), \u00e7ok k\u0131sa \u015fortlar, degaje yaka bluzlar, kalem(\u00e7ok dar) etekler. Yani g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerim kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda nutkum tutuldu. Hi\u00e7biri \u00e7ocuk k\u0131yafeti de\u011fil. Hi\u00e7biri d\u00f6rt ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa giydirilebilecek bir k\u0131yafet de\u011fil. \u00d6zellikle k\u0131z \u00e7ocuk reyonu tam bir k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kad\u0131n reyonuna d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f. Sap\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve sapk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bu kadar artt\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha fazla korumam\u0131z gereken bir d\u00f6nemde, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kad\u0131n gibi giydirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmak neden?\u201d Hi\u00e7 kimseyi zorla de\u011fi\u015ftiremezsiniz.\u00a0
\u00d6zel hayata m\u00fcdahale ediliyor diye yaygara kopartanlar, toplum i\u00e7erisinde normal giyinen erkek ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz etkileyecek davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na dikkat etmeleri gerekmektedir. Sadece bilin\u00e7lendirerek, yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczeltmesini sa\u011flayabilirsiniz. Ele\u015ftirilerimiz sadece k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in de\u011fil. Merak etmeyin ba\u015fka bir yaz\u0131mda erkeklerdeki yanl\u0131\u015f hareketler ve ya\u015fam tarzlar\u0131na da de\u011finece\u011fim.\u00a0HABER MERKEZ\u0130<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"